I have been thinking a lot lately in how you can convince someone of what you are feeling. Sometimes it's as simple as saying "that hurt" or "I'm upset" but what to say when it runs deeper? How do you explain to someone that they completely pushed you down? That they turned from this strong and confident woman into an insecure, over thinking and doubtful one. It's hard to get across what you are experiencing to someone, especially if they have not been through it. It's not always bad emotions to get across though, there's plenty of good.
How do you explain to someone how much they mean to you? That they are becoming one of your closest friends, you trust them with everything and you can't imagine life without them anymore. Saying it is often difficult or even awkward, what if they don't return the friendship? You can try to show it, always being there for them, being loyal and honest and just trying to prove how you feel.
It goes even deeper than that though. How do you tell someone how much you love them? And even if you tell them that you've never felt like this before, that this is the best thing to ever happen to you, do they understand it on the same level as you? And then when they say it to you, are you comprehending it on the level it was intended for?
This partially spurred from: Enchanted: That's How You Know
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